Dear Friends and Benefactors
"The debasement of noblest things is the
worst." This famous apothegm is no more applicable
than to matters of purity and impurity.
One of the most wide spread vices of our
day and age is that of impurity. It is a vice so easy to fall into yet once it
takes hold seems impossible to overcome. Part of the reason for this is that, as
St. John Climacus says:
Our relentless enemy, the teacher of
fornication, whispers that God is lenient and particularly merciful to this
passion, since it is so very natural. Yet if we watch the wiles of the demons
we will observe that after we have actually sinned they will affirm that God
is a just and inexorable judge. They say one thing to lead us into sin,
another thing to overwhelm us in despair.
Another reason why many are not victorious
in battling this vice is that they do not value the opposing virtue of purity.
They fail to realize that as there is no vice more loathsome and horrible than
impurity, so the most charming and beautiful of all virtues is purity. But why
is this so?
In the first place, purity is so highly
valued because it is the crown of all other virtues. It presupposes the presence
of many if not all other virtues. The pure of heart love prayer and have the
virtue of piety. They must at all times consider their infirmity and pray for
grace and strength thus practicing humility. They also love the virtues of
penance, self-denial and charity and they must have the virtues of meekness,
patience and zeal for the glory of God. They must also practice the virtues of
Faith, Hope and Charity, in such a perfect manner that the other virtues find
strength and support in them.
Another reason is that there is no virtue
which demands greater sacrifice and more care than purity. St. Jerome calls this
virtue a living martyrdom since it lasts for one’s entire life. We must guard
not only one of our senses or faculties, but all of them. All of our senses and
faculties are exposed to temptations against holy purity, and so we must keep
them all under careful control. It is this constant watchfulness and self-denial
which the Fathers of the Church regarded as a martyrdom.
Because of this self-denial, which purity
demands, some may have the impression that the life of the pure is sad and
gloomy; they are mistaken. The Garden of Paradise contained many trees but only
one was forbidden to our first parents. The fruit they were allowed to eat was
far more choice than that of the one forbidden to them. Because they chose to
enjoy the forbidden fruit they were no longer able to enjoy the others.
Likewise, the pure of heart know many more joys, pleasures and consolations that
are withheld from those who give themselves up to impurity.
Purity is reflected in our bearing and
character even though it be too subtle to analyze or explain. The pure young man
or young woman will be of a happy mind having a cheerfulness that does not
depend on the weather. Their eyes sparkle with a fire not of this world and they
see beauty and charm where the sinful see only the commonplace. The mountains,
trees and flowers, lawful gratification, labor and rest, all give to the pure a
gratification of which the worldly minded have no idea. How much better it is to
enjoy such peace and tranquility of mind, than to suffer the tortures of
conscience living in fear that hidden sins will become known.
Nothing in all Creation is grander than
the sight of a pure boy or girl growing up in all their strength and beauty of
health, with an innocent look in their eyes. Purity ennobles and elevates our
body, giving it a charm that is the delight of God and His angels. Even the
wicked, who are unwilling to be pure themselves, are compelled to admire and
respect purity in others.
Nor is it just the body of the pure that
God in His infinite generosity adorns but He beautifies the soul far more. They
that go to heaven upon the path of purity receive the choicest blessings and
graces. Through these graces they receive warning beforehand of impending
temptations and danger. Because of the greater and more pure love which purity
gives they are able to undergo any sacrifice, even to suffer death, rather than
forfeit the priceless jewel of purity.
Many saints were of the opinion that most
people lose their salvation through impurity. If so, we may say that the virtue
of purity is one of the safest marks of belonging to the elect. Our Savior has
told us little about the joys and rewards of the world to come, but He did
reveal that the pure will receive a special reward standing nearest to His
Throne, where they will sing a song of praise that no one else will be able to
sing.
Living in a world steeped in immodesty and
impurity it may seem impossible to go unscathed. But we can preserve this
precious jewel and pass through life unmarked if we rely on God’s grace and put
forth the effort, following the example of the saints.
The saints were able to fight off
temptation because they constantly lived in the presence of God. They had one
thought uppermost in their minds —wherever they were, God was by their side. By
constantly keeping God before their mind, they had the strength to suffer
anything for love of Him and thus turned suffering into joy and trials into
victories. When others were overwhelmed by even the smallest temptations because
they had lost sight of God, the saints accepted and conquered even the fiercest
assaults as a matter of course. The thought of God’s presence gave them
strength, consolation, hope and happiness.
The saints were able to keep God before
their minds because they lived in a spirit of prayer. They did not make the
mistake of thinking prayer to be a merely formal affair; a few minutes set apart
in a completely different atmosphere from the rest of their day. Rather they had
the constant pious disposition to connect everything they did or saw with God.
Every act became prayer for them. Every act of penance, self-denial and charity
was nothing else than prayer. Their entire life was transformed into one
constant prayer.
If sinners would go to Confession and Holy
Communion as frequently and with the same zealous dispositions as the saints,
they, too, would become saints. Generally speaking, however, those that need the
Sacraments the most are the most negligent in receiving them.
Besides the presence of God, the saints
also are shining examples of devotion to our Blessed Mother. True devotion to
the Blessed Virgin Mary is taken as a guarantee of eternal happiness. She does
not fail to obtain favors and blessings for those who honor her. Hence it should
not surprise us that her special admirers receive special benefits; as shown in
the lives of the saints. Thus Mary can and will obtain for the children that
love her most one of the greatest favors, the jewel and crown of all virtues.
The virtue of purity is, therefore, worth
our every effort and its beauty cannot be over-rated. It is something so refined
and heavenly that our weak human vision can scarcely grasp the greatness of its
grandeur. We shall only fully appreciate it in heaven. But until then we must
fight for it, and keep its beauty, as far as we can, before us.
Sincerely yours in the Precious Blood of Jesus,
Fr. John D. Fullerton